Why do people argue about money?

Watch thee video below or read the article below on why people argue about money.

Tired of arguing about money?

So, today I want to share with you how stop arguing about money and deal in a healthy way because this is so common. And it’s important that we understand what our loved ones’ values are and where they’re coming from; especially if they have different values for themselves than us – which usually happens!

Values can also reveal where someone else needs more support or understanding too- like during tough times–so let me tell ya’, these tips will help both parties out (and put an end on all those fighting over cash!).

So let’s go through a couple of stories first okay because this is kind of exciting. As I went through the relationship course in CODEBREAKER, I am now able to understand my husband a lot more. We have not always seen eye to eye on our finances and you know that’s totally normal. There is no way that everybody is going to totally agree on every purchase.

My hubby and I

My hubby’s first position is a “K”. This is the knowledge personality type. Now the 1st 2 letters are typically the most meaningful to you.

How does the Knowledge deal with finances?
They love to gather lots of information before making a major purchase or buying decision. They like a lot of time to make the right decision. They are also budgeters.

And for me I am a BLUEPRINT and am natural at budgeting. I like savings and financial security is important to me.
I like to make sure that when money comes in our checking account, money that is saved and it goes into a specific savings account, and I probably drive him crazy!

Being that I am a budgeter, when we have saved up enough money, I am ready to make a purchase. On the other hand, my husband might need more information and a little more time to make a decision. The “KNOWLEDGE” type is very logical.

ACTION person married to a BLUEPRINT

Now say you are married to the ACTION personality type. They love being spontaneous, having fun, live in the moment, and are totally chill about putting things on credit.

Whereas, a BLUEPRINT, likes to make a plan and following it. In addition, they love structure, discounts, deals and budgeting,

Now, this is a case where opposites attract, because the BLUEPRINT is like Wow, this action personality is so much fun, and the ACTION personality is like, Wow, this BLUEPRINT person has their life all in order.

After the honeymoon…

And so what happens after they get married? They tend to clash because they don’t understand that both have different sets of values. It’s important to realize when opposites attract, they can clash in different ways. But knowing this is half the battle!

It’s can be a step in the right direction when realizing the values of the people you care most about.

Here is a link to the free tool I use for clients so I can serve them in the best way possible. Check to see what your values are and get your personality assessment in 90 seconds or less. If you would like a more in-depth look, book an appointment today.

My hope is that this really helps you and I can provide some tools to strengthen your relationships,

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