The Power of Recognizing Your Worth as a Single Mom

“Am I enough?” and “Why am I here?” These are questions that often play in the minds of single moms who have experienced emotional abuse.  These are two questions that I had as a single mom after leaving and emotionally abusive relationship. If you are asking these questions, please know you are not alone and you can heal emotionally, physically and mentally. Yes, it will take time, but I am living proof it can be done and you can live a life a filled with happiness, peace and joy. I am here to tell you, you can stop the feelings of worthlessness so you can handle the weight of responsibility on your shoulders. However, it’s important to remember that you are here for a reason. Your unique experiences and resilience make you a powerful force in the world. In this blog, I’ll talk about how recognizing your worth can change your perspective on life.

You are heart-centered

First and foremost, you are here because you are a loving and caring parent. Despite the challenges you may face, you have committed to raising your children to the best of your ability. This is may not always feel easy, but it’s an important one. You have the power to shape the future generation and instill values of empathy, kindness, and respect in your children. Your love and guidance will have a profound impact on their lives.

Break the Cycle of Generational Emotional Abuse

Additionally, you are here to break the cycle of abuse. Many single moms have escaped unhealthy relationships and are now determined to create a better life for themselves and their children. By doing so, you are setting an example for your children and showing them that it’s never too late to make positive changes in your life. Your experiences can also help other women who are struggling with similar situations. That’s my mission in life right now!

What are your dreams?

Furthermore, you are here to pursue your passions and dreams. Being a single mom doesn’t mean that you have to give up on your goals. In fact, it can be a motivating factor to work harder and achieve your dreams. By doing so, you are not only showing your children that it’s possible to live a fulfilling life, but you are also inspiring others to do the same. Your unique experiences and perspectives can also add value to the world.

I am Here to Support You💜

Moreover, you are here to form meaningful relationships with others. Being a single mom can be isolating, but you are not alone. There are many people who are willing to support and uplift you, whether it’s family, friends, or other single moms. By connecting with others, you can create a sense of belonging and community. You are also here to inspire and support others who may be going through similar struggles. Join me in the private Face book group, Single Moms & Money: THRIVING after Emotional Abuse.

What Makes you Smile?

Lastly, you are here to be kind to yourself. It’s easy to get caught up in negative self-talk (you know, the negative thoughts you play over and over again in your mind) and feelings of inadequacy. However, it’s important to recognize your worth and practice self-care. By doing so, you are showing your children what it means to love and respect yourself. You are also creating a positive environment for yourself and others.

One Last Thing…

As a single mom who may have experienced emotional abuse, it’s important to recognize your worth and the reasons why you are here. You have a unique set of experiences and qualities that make you a powerful force in the world. By acknowledging your strengths and pursuing your passions, you can create a fulfilling life for yourself and your children. Remember, you are not alone and there are people like me who are willing to support and uplift you. You are here for a reason and your presence is valuable.